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Monday, October 08, 2012

Bad Advice Given by Stupid Bitches

Another good read by Foxy Nick 

This are my thoughts on girls i believe to be gold diggers these days, gimme gimme princesses' disguised as seemingly feminist women. I subscribe to the thought of feminism and think we all should be independent women. But what really gets me is not only one but a few women have told me that I should make a guy I'm dating pay for everything. This being part of the thought behind being a strong independent woman no less, because we are flexing our powers as women. I looked a bit aghast at them after they uttered this truly craptastic statement. Why would I make him pay for everything, it's nice enough he's already dropped a lot on dinners but what I can't pay for a meal or a show? I make my own money and I'm damn proud of that money it means I have the financial independence to spend that money on what ever the fuck I want to. Maybe I like taking him out and making him feel special; why not, he is special to me. Oh is this about the game of not showing your feelings to a guy because then he'd have the upper hand? I thought its just about not being an annoying little twit about everything and having your own life and space not pestering someone all the time. But I digress.

So she says, "well you are giving him..." (oh you mean we fuck? Have dirty, nasty, hot, sweaty, bring you to the point of climax but you're not even close to being finished sex?) why yes we do but it's not like it's a commodity. I am not just a pair of tits and ass. Although it is a fine one for that matter. I don't want someone to pay for everything because he wants to put his dick in me for a few seconds of pleasure for him and some fancy meals, clothes, jewelry etc for me. I want to fuck, nay, have passionate sex with someone I actually like and maybe even care about. God forbid these days we actually can have lives as independent, interesting, fun people and have a relationship in where there is mutual respect and understanding. I realize woman kind is jaded from the awful display of men out there that keeps getting regurgitated back to us time and again but I think it's ok to trust a man at some point. I'm not saying take what ever he tells you at first as truth because, let's face it no matter what all men will take the easy in to your pants. Make a guy earn your respect and have him slowly show he's worthy of it. This is not a one sided equation ladies, the point of feminism is that we are treated equal to men. I want a partner not a daddy, I already have one of those. You gotta make sure you're acting like someone who deserves another persons respect, not like some little shit for brains spoiled brat

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